Miriam’s Cup
Each year the American Jewish Committee here in Cleveland hosts an interfaith seder, where leaders from faith communities throughout the area gather to celebrate the story of liberation from slavery. Though shared through the unique lens of the Jewish people, it is a story of God’s justice for all. It is also a wonderful gathering of friends and colleagues, and because of the pandemic this was the first time it was held in-person in four years.
This year they included a practice that is new to many seder table’s: Miriam’s Cup. Miriam’s Cup is “a new ritual object, placed on the table beside the Cup of Elijah.” Filled with water, “it serves as a symbol of Miriam’s Well, which was the source of water for Israelites in the desert.
During the seder the empty cup was passed around the table as each of us added a bit from own water glasses. As we did, without explanation we named a woman who has given us strength.
I named my sister Catherine. But I continued to think of those women throughout my life have shown me not only strength, but also wisdom, courage and love. I thought of my wife Jo, of course, who continues to teach me what faith and creativity can look like. I thought of mentors in life and faith, from my first boss (before seminary) who modeled steadiness and integrity in a chaotic work environment, to priests, bishops, and lay women who have faithfully led the people of God through ever-changing times.
We are drawing to a close on women’s history month, so I found this moment of reflection – Miriam’s cup, passed from person to person – to be a moment of grace and gratitude. I give thanks for the gift and strength of the women who have shaped and taught me, and who have faithfully led the church throughout its history.